Groomers refusing Doodles.

Never in my career have I heard so much groomer bashing. Groomers are frustrated too!

I’ve been a groomer for 15yrs and been contacted by several frustrated doodle parents searching for yet another groomer because the last one shaved their dog too short.

For several years now Doodles have been gaining in popularity due to their hypo-allergenic, anti-shedding fluffy coats. They are also highly publicized on social media for their size and loveable personalities. Doodles are a mix breed, which was not all that popular in the prior years when most pet parents preferred purebreds. Whatever the cross breed may be, often times the end result is a mix between two very different coats. For example, Golden Retrievers have two layers, a thick undercoat and a water resistant outer coat that is fine, soft and luxurious. Poodles on the other hand have coarse curly hair. Combine the two and it could go either way making it difficult to maintain.

Often times too much time passes, in between grooms with no grooming practices at home. I get it! Grooming can be expensive starting from $75 up to $200 (depending on size and condition of the coat) and its the groomers job to send them back just as the client requested, fluffy. Unfortunately, if they are not dried and combed out properly after a bath at home or swimming, it accelerates the tangles and matts. They may seem soft and tangle free on the outside, however, the undercoat tells a much different story. Often times a shave down is the only option and it comes off like a pelt. The main concern for the pet parent seems to be vanity, however, often times these ungroomed coats cannot be de-matted due to the severity. This condition can be VERY painful for dogs that when shaved exposes bruising, hot spots, excessive dander and other skin issues.

Below is just a few examples of this. (their faces are hidden to avoid embarrassment ;))

Honestly, doodle parents need to be responsible for the daily home maintenance of these complex, fluffy coats. Groomers only see them once a month, best case scenario. Can you imagine only combing out your own hair once a month? It’s plain and simple, if its too matted, it has to be shaved short. Shaving a matted dog is difficult for the pet and the groomer. It takes significantly more time, skill and expertise in order to not nick, cut or burn the dogs skin with the over worked clippers and sharp blades.

For daily grooming of a longer fluffy doodle coat, use a slicker brush all over from head to toe focusing on the spots that matt the most, i.e. armpits, neck area (specially if they are walked with a harness), rear end and legs. Then use a metal comb from the root outward. If the coat has matts that are too hard to remove by brushing or combing, its best to use grooming scissors or clippers to remove those specific spots. If the fur is fairly long and fluffy, you will never notice these little spots that need to be removed. It is also important to brush and comb PRIOR to at-home baths as well as after being dried. There are products available to lessen the comb out process such as all natural shampoos and conditioners.

In closing, if you work with their groomers on a plan to maintain the luxurious coat of these wonderful companions, all involved will benefit. Skipping around to different groomers just puts more stress on you and your pet. Pick a groomer you feel comfortable with and stick with them. Keep communication open at each and every grooming to build a relationship.

Be kind to one another, we all have struggles. Tell your dog I said “HI”.

Grooming for Senior Dogs

Should senior dogs and cats continue to be groomed?

The answer is YES! Although it can be a difficult process for the elderly dog and cat, it is essential for their health and well being. After the groom they tend to feel better and a little more energized. Being a groomer for 15 years I am a first hand witness to this. They come in a little smelly and soiled with long nails and dirty ears. When they leave, they seem happier and refreshed! Our pets are an integral part of our family. They provide us with loving sloppy wet kisses when we are sad, they are protectors, pillows and best friends. Our boy Sparky, AKA “Mr. gray face”, an aging yellow Labrador is now 14 years old (98 in dog years). He has saved every human in our family thru trying times with unconditional love and constant companionship. His eyes are cloudy, his joints unsteady and unable to go for car rides or a big hop up on the couch. He has a comfortable bed located in our family room where we lay on the floor next to him. There are good days and bad.

The ASPC estimates that 78 million dogs and 85.8 million cats are owned in the United States and almost half (47%) are age 7 years and older. As they age, they are prone to stress and anxiety making it extra hard on them going to the groomer. You may start to notice that certain sounds tend to frighten them into a panic such as wind or fireworks. At the pet salon they also tend to be afraid of the noisy dryers, clippers and other barking dogs. However, an experienced groomer can provide special extra amenities such as a sling and/or an ear sock to eliminate loud noise. Communication between you and the groomer is most important. Daily doses of pet CBD can calm them as well as provide relief from arthritis and joint pain. Pets also tend to slow down, sleep more, get a little wobbly and eating habits may change due to the effects of congestive heart failure, kidney or liver issues. You will notice that their nails grow longer quicker since they do not grind down naturally through activity. They must be trimmed or grinned more often so that the quick does not grow too long. It is important to keep them calm, clean, clipped and comfortable.

I came across this poem, I would love to share as it sums up the struggle between groomer and pet …..

“This is an open note to all the groomers out there who yesterday, today, or tomorrow, are holding tight a senior pet throughout their grooming sessions. 

The ones who wobble, the ones who struggle, the ones who tremble, the ones who bite & fight, the blind ones, the deaf ones, the ones who can’t hold their bladder, the arthritic ones, the stumbling fumbling ones, the screamy ones, the ones whose breath isn’t too fresh, the panicky ones, the ones whose coats are thin, the ones whose hair is dull and greasy, the ones whose bodies are worn out and broken down, the ones whose minds aren’t as focused as they were…….

Thank you for being extra patient and kind. Thank you for putting vanity aside in favour of our comfort. Thank you for going slow. Thank you for turning down the dryer. Thank you for the extra snuggly towel cuddles. Thank you for the thoughtful way you turn and lift me. Thank you for the extra warm bath massage. 

Thank you for knowing that I’m not giving you a hard time, but rather, that I’m having a hard time.”🐶 💓 Anonymous

Now if you can wipe the tears from your eyes and continue reading, here are some ideas and topics to discuss with the groomer:

  1. Ask for the most experienced groomer.
  2. Communicate to the groomer of any pressing concerns, ie. recent seizures, sore spots, skin or fur issues, anxiety, etc.
  3. Remind the groomer of any lumps and bumps to avoid with clippers and scissors.
  4. Ask if they can be groomed as soon as possible and not place in a cage. Use a mobile groomer if possible for a more calm, one on one experience.
  5. Bring a favorite blanket or squeaky toy for comfort.
  6. Bring a washable diaper in case of incontinence to avoid a mess on the grooming table or on the way home.
  7. Try giving a calming treat or a light sedative prior to the grooming service.
  8. Do not expect a perfect groom or ask for anything out of the ordinary. Their comfort is more important than vanity.
  9. Provide light daily grooming habits at home. It can help to identify new issues as well as creating a bonding experience.
  10. Do not wait too long in between grooms. It is a more difficult process if the coat is too dirty or matted.

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Whatever the age, good grooming practices are essential for your pets health. Its important to start early so that they become comfortable with the process and continue it as long as possible. You may also want to consider grooming at your veterinarian office for sedation and immediate emergency care if needed. Your groomer my eventually deny service and recommend the vet because it has become too difficult. Please don’t get upset, its because they care. Groomers become attached to their furry friends and when we lose them to an illness or old age its definitely the most difficult part of the job. Keep in mind, for us, sometimes its a monthly occurrence.

Hopefully this was useful information. Thanks for reading. Tell your dog I said “HI”.